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Bad Boy Is Sexy… But Pathetic

Hello good people!

Have you ever heard the saying that “good guys always finish last?” When I was still trying to win Kate, I had competition from people I consider bad guys.  Unfortunately for me then, at first Kate seemed to gravitate toward the bad guys – unfortunate because I took pride in my good guy reputation.  But then I realized I really did not have to ditch being a good guy, all I had to do was to look sufficiently ‘bad’ and mysterious without actually being one.  It worked like a charm, landing me a relationship with Kate, the one woman in the world that I truly love!

Good girls dig bad guys. This is one of the biggest, most mysterious dating behaviors of women that have continued to baffle good men to the benefit of the ‘bad boys.’ Why would good, intelligent, gorgeous and loyal women want to be in relationships with men who only want to break their hearts? There’s a mystery for you.

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Be an attractive Bad Good Guy

how to make her go crazy over you – a tactical guide. While the mystery remains unanswered, there are ways to bring out the bad boy in each of us, if just to to attract the nice girls [15], without actually being bad:

Swap your big sunny, toothy smiles for the half-grin of most dangerous men. Have you ever seen an assassin smile sheepishly? No. So go ahead and practice that half-smile – it looks just as dangerous as it is sexy. For inspiration, check out photos of the devious half of the Salvatore brothers, Damon played by Ian Somerhalder. Learn a thing or two about how to channel those inner devilish charms.

Don’t be too friendly. I’m not saying you should be rude and mean. But cut down the social butterfly status and go for the quiet, mysterious, shy guy who likes to be alone and away from the crowd. If you’ve never watched Twilight (and even if you have, I’m pretty sure you’d deny having watched it), you might want to look at clips of Edward in the first movie where he plays an elusive, quiet, shy gentleman. Trust me; you can get their attention by trying not to get their attention.

Look at people in the eye. Don’t stare too long to be creepy but linger a bit longer than usual. See, shy guys can be quiet too; but the difference lies in how they look at people. The shy guys scan the big picture without necessarily keeping their eyes on one girl for fear of being caught. Meanwhile, bad guys are as quiet and as detached as shy people but they stare – they hold their gaze and lock eyes with the woman they fancy. They stare long enough to get the woman’s attention, capture her curiosity to the point of staring back and then let go of the stare.  Try it.  You can thank me later!

Don’t talk too much. Remember, bad guys are mysterious! Don’t talk too much about yourself, don’t go out too much, and don’t be too active on social media. Bad guys always keep a low profile and keep the ladies waiting for him to reveal more of himself. Remember, women are interested in men they know nothing about so keep them asking by giving details in dribbles. Reserve the detailed answer for the one special girl that you really like.

Don’t be too neat. While being hygienic is important, keep a disheveled look for yourself. Grow your hair a little bit longer than allowed, wear dark clothes, and look a little dangerous.

Ever wonder why women can’t seem to resist bad boys? It’s not because they’re jerks – no one likes someone because they’re a jerk. Rather, it’s because they’re confident and assertive – in other words, sexy. Use these pointers to build your masculine confidence and show the world (and all the women in it) who wears the pants! –Read more.

You don’t have to be a real bad guy to get them ladies hooked! You just have to look the part. Good luck Good Bad Guy!

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Posted on 9th December 2013 in Dating Tips, Relationships  •  Comments are off for this post

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